11/11/2025
“I just felt as though everything I’d been keeping together, my coping, my masking, simply snapped. It was as though my autism broke.”
- Research participant in a seminal study* on menopause and autism
Many autistic people use camouflaging, that is suppressing their autistic and ADHD traits and imitating non-autistic ways of behaving, to survive. However, many find that when their estrogen levels start to drop, heralding the beginning of menopause (which can start in the early 40’s) they don’t have the energy or executive functioning capacity to mask or camouflage any longer. At the same time, they struggle with sleeping (due to increased anxiety and hot flushes) which leads to energy depletion and more ‘brain fog.’ Suddenly emotion regulation feels inaccessible and sensory sensitivities can be heightened. The sense of fear and lack of safety could escalate exponentially, especially if support sought is not attuned, invalidating or just not forthcoming. It is helpful to be forewarned about the changes that commonly occur for autistic people prior to these changes starting, and developing strategies to manage them, including being able to access the right kinds of support. In essence, it is important to know that you are not broken, your autism is not broken and you are not alone.
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Want to learn more about the unique strengths, challenges, and lived experiences of autistic women?
Join the webcast Autistic Women webcast on 7 November 2025 - An afternoon session, 1:30 pm – 4:45 pm AEST to explore the experiences, strengths, and mental health of autistic women across adulthood.
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In the morning, we are hosting our Autistic Girls from 9:30 am – 12:45 pm AEST, Brisbane time - join to gain research-informed insights and practical strategies for supporting authenticity, wellbeing, and inclusion.
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*Moseley, R. L., Druce, T., & Turner-Cobb, J. M. (2020). 'When my autism broke': A qualitative study spotlighting autistic voices on menopause. Autism, 24(6), 1423-1437.