13/09/2025
🍃Even as a Healing Practitioner, I’m constantly looking within to heal my own inner wounds.
Within this lifetime, I have been repairing the damaged, broken and fragmented parts of my soul. This is lifetimes of karmic patterns that ai choose to no longer repeat. It has been a long process (consciously over 10 years of inner work) and it definitely does not happen overnight but when you really start to see results and the changes transforming it feels so rewarding. This is just the most beautiful part of waking up to a complete and different feeling of wholeness.
Especially, if you have been feeling out of sorts and can’t quite figure things out or why things continue to happen throughout your life, this might be an interesting read for you.
As we travel throughout our life, we enter many relationships; those being a variety of family relationships, friendships, marriage, romantic relationships, some codependency, or situationships, or even friends with benefits, the list is endless and they all impact us in so many different ways.
If you can imagine that every time you enter into a relationship or invisible agreement with another person, you are giving a part or a fragment of yourself to that person and vise versa. You are unintentionally taking on parts and characteristics of them; some positive ~ some negative!
I guess this is part of our human experience and without these interactions our lives would feel pointless.
Having a fragmented soul occurs in all of us, some are just more fragmented than others. Every time you enter into a new relationship, it’s like you have a hole (or part) in your soul which has been removed and replaced with a part of the other persons soul to whom you are interacting with at that time. Some parts are layered with many integral aspects and some are singular. Is the best way I can describe it. (Metaphorically speaking)
Sometimes, whilst in a relationship it can feel like a pull - push type scenario where you are constantly being affected by what is happening in their day to day lives, even if you are not always physically with them.
It’s like you know something is happening as you can feel it, but you just don’t know what it is or why you suddenly start feeling a certain way.
So, this is where it gets a bit complicated.
When you leave or seperate yourself from each relationship as you move through your life, a residue or imprint from them stays with you, like an experience or a trauma memory if that makes more sense to you. So, you take that part of them with you and they take a part of you with them.
Sexual or intimate relationships have a stronger and more binding link between the two people.
This is why certain traits or characteristics you experienced whilst with that person often can and will continue to repeat itself if gone unhealed or left behind.
When you bring awareness to these imbalances and can then recognise that particular traits or characteristic are not yours. You can return that part that does not belong to you and the healing will begin. It’s also very important to retrieve and heal that particular fragment of you that has been missing. Often a feeling of grief or sadness can arise, an emotion that is often connected by this deep loss within you.
So, even though you are no longer in that particular relationship or in contact with them, you do still have parts of that fragmented soul within you.
You may often feel off kilter, particularly if you notice certain unhealthy patterns reoccurring or still happening in your life. It may actually be that they (past relationships) are still repeating certain behaviours in their present life and by this happening, is in turn still affecting you.
Example: This is why a person who has had trust issues in a past relationship due to betrayal for instance. If this is gone unhealed, buried or left as an open fragment this would often attract betrayal or mistrust into their present life, often repeating patterns, just with different people.
It’s like you’re constantly being pulled back into this unhealthy space no matter what you do.
A deep trsnsformative healing process can facilitate a soul retrieval by helping the client call back these missing soul parts or fragments and integrate them back into their luminous energy fields. This process involves energetically retrieving soul parts, usually one at a time and giving them the voice and healing they need to return to the person.
This is a beautiful process of bringing the soul back to wholeness. Many fragments of the soul could be unhealed traumas.
If you struggle with the following, you might be dealing with a fragmented soul.
Irrational or unexplained fears
Stubborn or perpetual emotions
Overreactions to seemingly small problems
Any type of childhood trauma
Losing blocks of time
Inability to remember certain events or periods of life
A tendency to “check out” in certain situations
Trust issues
Lacking confidence
Self doubt
Codependency
Lack of self love
Continuously attracting narcissists into your life
Indecisiveness or procrastination
This is something I can guide you through and is particularly something we work through in my 6 week program.
🤍With love, Nadine x