
16/09/2025
8 TIPS TO MAKE THE MOST FROM YOUR DOCTOR’S APPOINTMENT
1. When making your appointment, ask the receptionist if there’s a doctor or nurse practitioner with an interest in women’s health/menopause.
2. If you think you need more than 10 minutes, request a double appointment. You might wait a little longer, but you’ll feel less pressured.
3. Have a physical list of symptoms you can show or read out. Download the symptom scorecard from my website and take it along.
4. It helps to know how your last 12 months’ cycles have looked (erratic/heavier/lighter/spotting/more painful?). Apps like can help you build a picture and jog your memory.
5. Think about how you want to manage your symptoms. There are many approaches — not all involve medication. A good GP will help you create a plan that works, including nutrition and lifestyle.
6. Seek a second opinion if your doctor says:
“You’re too young to be peri/menopausal”
“You can’t be peri if you’re still having periods”
“You can’t be peri/meno if you’re not having hot flushes”
“These symptoms are normal and part of peri/meno - nothing to be worried about, it’s a natural process”
“You need blood tests to diagnose peri/meno” (if over 45 or under 45 with symptoms)
7. A good GP will check how your treatment is working and make adjustments if needed. Menopause care is a journey, not a one-time fix.
8. The Australian Menopause Society has a Find an AMS Doctor tool to locate trained doctors. WellFemme offers telehealth menopause consultations across Australia. I work with many brilliant doctors — it’s just about finding the right one for you.
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