17/06/2025
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Reactive abuse is REAL‼️
Needed to share this for someone that needs it 💝
Reactive abuse refers to a situation where a person, often a survivor of abuse, reacts to their abuser's provocations or manipulations in a way that can be perceived as abusive or aggressive. This reaction can be used by the abuser to shift the blame, manipulate others, or even claim victimhood.
Reactive abuse can take many forms, including verbal or physical reactions, and can be used to justify further abuse or control. It's essential to recognize that reactive abuse doesn't excuse the original abuse, and survivors shouldn't be blamed for reacting to their circumstances.
- The abuser often creates a situation that provokes a reaction from the survivor.
- The survivor's reaction is then used to justify the abuser's behavior or claim victimhood.
- Reactive abuse can be used to manipulate others, including authorities, friends, or family members.
It's crucial to understand the dynamics of reactive abuse and not blame the survivor for reacting to their situation. Instead, focus on addressing the root cause of the abuse and supporting the survivor. If you’re going through this, recognize the patterns and remove yourself from situations that provoke you. This is how you will take back control of your energy and life.
