Carla's Realignments and Counselling

05/07/2025

How to know when someone has a personality disorder…. just 2 basic things to look for 1. Limited personality traits which means they repeat the same behaviours over and over again ultimately don’t have resourceful problem solving skills, 2. The inability to Self reflect and Self Correct which mean they lack self awareness.

PD is not a medical condition. Therefore medication doesn’t work for Personality Disorders. You can’t swallow a pill to be more flexible or a pill to gain critical thinking skills. PD is a neurotic and repetitive condition. Not a medical condition such as depression that has “Symptoms". PD doesn’t have symptoms to be treated, it is merely a lack of “traits and characteristics” that haven’t been attained. Someone with PD merely hasn’t developed and attained certain skills. Which is why problem solving Therapies work best.

Which is why 8 Selves Therapy works so well to help people gain skills, traits, resources and characteristics for a healthier more fuller toolkit for daily problem solving.

Unfortunately, when a Personality Disorder is present you can tell immediately because PD people will persist with a behaviour despite negative consequences to their choices. When someone with PD comes up against resistance to change they will immediately STOP therapy and their personal growth quickly comes to a halt. You can often tell the level of rigidity in their patterns and ways of thinking based on where in the 8 Selves Therapy they become stuck or quit Therapy. Often it’s within the first few Selves they can’t move past resistance and insist on staying stuck.

If you want to really push your development and growth to a whole other level, consider 8ST. It requires perseverance, openness, the willingness to make changes and Self Reflect. Contact me for more info. 🙂 Carla S

09/06/2025

The wonderful thing about being a Counsellor is the constant growth that comes from all the courses you have to do to maintain you credentials. My career is my eternal evolution. This subject is interesting because my majors is in relationship counselling.

Are you aware of how many intelligent, educated women still fall prey to emotional abuse and gaslighting? Intelligence sadly, doesn’t make you immune to this type of coercive control. Interestingly studies show that there is a very particular type of Woman that is most susceptible to this type of abuse, you’ll be surprised to note that it’s NOT a history of abuse.

In fact intelligence is actually one of these what they call “Super Traits” preditory partners look for. Along with a few other traits like goal orientated, ambitious. empathic, agreeableness, loyal make Women the perfect candidate for pathological relationships. Quite simply because these traits can actually be used a collateral against you.

This is very different to Domestic Violence Relationships which in fact are most common due to a history or abuse and trauma.

A great Counsellor needs to understand the difference between DV Relationships and Pathological Love Relationships because the signals within clients, treatment and trauma is very different to each other.

25/05/2025

Most people don’t know the difference between Repression and Suppression. Let me give you a quick run down.

Repression is a forgotten trauma, something that was buried deep inside that later becomes a feeling without thinking behind it because your body remembers even though your mind doesn’t. This is where issues like PTSD, unexplained phobias, obsessions, compulsions etc… take place and when you ask someone to get to the root of the issues they never remember where it started.

Suppression is when one chooses to not feel at that moment and has the ability to fight the battle at another time when they are calm and able to think. Suppression can look like masking the uncomfortable emotions with humour, altruism or looking disinterest or even sublimation and brushing feelings under the rug.

Through studies Repression has proven to cause negative impacts on a person’s mental and emotional maturity. However Suppression has actually proven to be a sign of emotional maturely and people who had the ability to suppress in healthy ways and under the right circumstances where actually less likely to suffer from depression.

What stands out to me with these 2 options is “Choice”. With repression there seems to be no choice to it. With suppression there is still the awareness that you can choose it.
Carla’s Realignments and Counselling

20/05/2025

8 Selves Therapy Counselling you’ll learn how to connect with your higher self, stay connected and activate the ingredients that make up your Souls Blueprint.

The result is:
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19/05/2025

09/05/2025

Self-Knowledge is your right! Highlight

08/05/2025

Within a Dragon Reading find out:
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Dragons are said to have hidden out in the 4th Dimension after being slaughtered and hunted by western cultures when they were in physical 3D world. Dragons had to raise their vibration in order to survive. By raising their Vibration, they became invisible to humans in the 3rd Dimension, but they are very much still energetically alive.

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30/04/2025

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24/04/2025

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24/04/2025

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