
08/04/2025
Inviting curiosity can be so powerful. A great reminder for everyone!
Having always done this with my lovely tribe, I can honestly say these are such powerful words for children to hear wondered aloud and to learn to wonder themselves.
“I wonder what’s going on for your friend for them to have been so snappy today?”
“I wonder what that’s like for your teacher, to put so much thought and effort into how they can help you all learn, only to have some of the kids they’re trying so hard for deliberately ignore them?”
“We’ve noticed that particular customer here at the supermarket before… I wonder why they choose to behave in that way? I can only imagine that makes life harder for them, so what might that be about do you think?”
“I wonder what that’s like to move to a new school at this age, when lots of you are already settled into your friend groups? I wonder what you could do to help the days feel less hard for them as they find their people?”
“You’re such a kind human. It’s one of the gazillion things I love about you. But what you said back there wasn’t kind, so I wonder what that’s about. What’s happening for you and how can I help?”
I suspect the world would be a better place if we all did a little more wondering… ❤️