02/12/2025
✨️As we close off 2025 and step into a new year, I’m feeling the call of mana wāhine rising.✨
2025 has felt chaotic and heavy, Te taurite — balance — becomes our grounding force. Yet for many wāhine, finding that balance feels like we’re letting others down. Saying “kāo” can feel selfish. Putting ourselves first can feel like we’re breaking the unspoken rules of what a “good woman” should be.
We give up our dreams to help the whare.
We silence our needs to keep the peace.
We carry the load for everyone — because that’s what our mothers, our nannies, our kuia did.
But eventually… our wairua feels it.
And our mauri begins to dim.
Where is the joy if our giving no longer aligns with who we truly are?
The evolution of a wāhine — in te ao Māori — is a journey of whakamana i te tangata, whakamana i a koe anō: uplifting others while also uplifting yourself. It’s remembering that our whakapapa carries not only responsibility, but mana, strength, intuition, and identity.
For generations, wāhine have been the cooks, the cleaners, the nurturers, the protectors, the emotional anchors — often to our own detriment.
We live in the chaos of over-giving.
We fear not being enough.
We feel unvalued by those we pour into.
If you feel this in your bones — kei konei au, I see you.
But the journey forward — the hokinga ki tō mauri — is the path of the evolved wāhine.
She listens to her own needs.
She nourishes her wairua.
She remembers her worth.
She stands in her mana.
She returns to her true self — tūturu, pono, aroha.
As we step into 2026, remember:
You don’t always need to abandon everything.
Sometimes it’s just small shifts, gentle tweaks — a change in rhythm, a reclaiming of space — that bring you back to balance, back to your whakapapa, back to yourself.
He wāhine, he whenua, ka ngaro te tangata.
When women rise, we all rise. ✨