14/12/2025
Christmas gatherings hit different when you’re planning a homebirth 🎄
Maybe you’re announcing your pregnancy at a family gathering. Or maybe people are asking about your plans.
And the moment you mention homebirth?…
Suddenly everyone’s an expert 🙃
👨 Uncle Dave who’s never birthed anything: “That’s dangerous.”
👩 Your MIL who had all scheduled cesareans: “But what if something goes wrong?”
🧒 Your cousin who watches Grey’s Anatomy: “You know hospitals exist for a reason?”
🧓 Random relatives: “That’s very brave” (translation: reckless)
🎄 The festive season reveals something crucial: who actually respects your sovereignty and who thinks your pregnant body is public property
Here’s what they won’t tell you:
☀️ You’ve researched more than any of them did for their births
☀️ For low-risk pregnancies, planned homebirth is as safe as hospital birth physically and for many people it is more safe mentally and emotionally
☀️ Their fear doesn’t get to override your informed choice
☀️ Birth outcomes aren’t about location - they’re about support, autonomy, and physiological process
☀️ The judgment isn’t about your safety. It’s about their discomfort with your autonomy.
This heightened season - all that family time, all those questions, all that unsolicited advice - it’s actually preparation. Because if you can hold your ground now, you can hold it in labour.
If you’re feeling this, it might be a good time to jump into my free Plan Your Dream Homebirth webinar because one of the things we work on is exactly this: expressing your needs and advocating for yourself when everyone has an opinion.
Trust me: the judgment doesn’t stop after the gathering. You need practice 💫
🔗 under ‘Homebrith’ on the website