
01/05/2025
😢 I’ll never forget sitting in my bedroom, sobbing, promising myself “NEVER AGAIN” after yet another heartbreak with another emotionally unavailable man…
Only to find myself chasing some other hot mess three days later 🙊
I knew that I was only hurting myself, and I felt like an absolute idiot going for the same guys over and over again but for some reason I just couldn’t walk away!
🤔 What I didn’t understand then is that my brain was literally wired to choose the certainty of familiar pain (unavailable men) over the unknown of potential happiness (a fulfilling relationship)
And as sensitive souls, we feel this struggle even more intensely because we process EVERYTHING at such a deep level!
🧠 Logically it might seem like the path forward is about forcing yourself to change through willpower or self-discipline
👉🏽but it’s not👈🏽
It’s about creating safety within your nervous system FIRST, understanding what your current patterns are giving you, and then taking gentle steps toward the change you are craving
💓I promise you, on the other side of that resistance is a version of yourself who feels at home in your own skin.
For personalised support as you navigate these patterns, my DMs are open 💌