11/01/2026
A lot of neurodivergent people grow up being told that their needs are “too much” or “wrong”, especially in relationships. Well to anyone new to CRUSH therapy and our page, you won't find that rhetoric here! 🕺🏼
Many of the things highlighted in this post are regulation needs, communication differences, or sensory responses, not red flags.
An important note❗
This post is general and not a blanket pass for harmful behaviour. However in an increasingly polarizing world that seems to be compelled to label and make snap judgements, this post attempts to provide some nuance and empathy to a range of complex behaviours that may be labelled otherwise.
Nobody is excused from...
• causing harm
• controlling others
• repeated boundary violations
• lack of accountability
Remember that red flags are about impact, consent, safety, and power — not difference.