14/12/2024
According to Paul Ekman’s model of emotions there are six core emotions : happiness, sadness, disgust, anger, fear and surprise. People from all races, ethnicities, genders and cultural backgrounds all experience these emotions and each of these core emotions has a characteristic facial expression that is common across this diversity.
While psychology can provide tools and strategies for dealing with anxiety and depression and other mental disorders, a large part of developing meaningful change in therapy can come from the raising, expressing, exploring and processing of emotional content relating to both present and past significant events – including traumatic events.
One of the tools I use to do this is the emotion wheel – the one on this post is the one I use in therapy. It has the added emotion “bad” – which is kind of a miscellaneous physical category (e.g. stressed/tired/bored/busy).
The emotion wheel has the core emotions in the centre – which then expand into a secondary circle listing the different types of the core emotion – which then expands into more detailed specific emotional labels.
One way of using this with patients who struggle to express their emotions is to ask them: “What core emotion do you feel?” Once they’ve identified a core emotion (e.g. Fear) I then draw their attention to the secondary layer and say "What type of fear?”. They may respond with “I felt scared”. I would then prompt them with “Did you feel helpless or frightened?” (As these are the two specific emotional labels under the emotion type “scared”).
Learning a larger emotional vocabulary allows for a fuller expression and processing of current and repressed emotional content in therapy – provided of course that the patient feels safe, accepted, not-judged and feels comfortable, safe and trusting towards the therapist.
Sometimes this can take time to develop and personally I feel I have to earn this trust from the client and discuss whether they feel comfortable in the therapeutic relationship before doing any deep emotional based work.