21/07/2023
This was written three years ago and is still true today as it was then . Sometimes we need a reminder 😉
Hi ..yes you ,
Happy Saturday Squad 😎This video is summing up all the things I’m kind of working on and reviewing in my life lately .. I know it’s more geared towards relationships with men 😅I have also been applying to relationships with friends too . The content in the video is great .. the title might confuse you ..so watch the video then you will get what I’m saying 😉
It all comes down to worth ,effort and energy . I have been deciding where to invest my effort, time and energy .. I want to invest only in people that are also wanting to do the same back . If you keep investing your time and energy into people who just take and give little or nothing back in return .. your going to find yourself drained and feeling miserable . Trust me .. I have been there it sucks ! 😔
I have noticed that with certain people and that’s the time to walk away .. (it could be temporary or permanent ) if you don’t you will just WASTE your TIME and it will make you feel terrible inside when your an AMAZING person . They just didn’t VALUE you .. it’s their LOST not yours !
Just be aware if your GIVING even when they don’t as that could also be part of the issue .. giving is fine but remember you want to also be receiving back ! Relationships are a two way street ..it’s GIVE and TAKE .
Notice if your the one who is constantly putting time ,effort and energy and if not where could you do that more and with who ?
Obviously you want to prioritise who you want to invest in more and who you want to invest less on . Sometimes it helps to make a list so you can visually see what are your priorities but what are you actually investing more effort into and if it matches your priorities list . You can also notice who has been investing more ENERGY & TIME into you .. sometimes it helps to APPRECIATE those people too .🥰
Inner work isn’t always easy but it is always interesting 🤔
Have fun with this food for thought Squad 😎
The video below focuses on romantic relationships but the principles still apply to friendships 😉
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