08/04/2025
Here are a couple of ideas that came in an email from "Stoic Wisdoms", that bear repeating.
What if the very idea that you need to be "fixed" is the problem?"
The premise that we need constant improvement creates many of the problems we're trying to solve.
The ancient Stoics took a different approach entirely. Rather than asking "How do I fix this?" they asked "What can this teach me?" Rather than demanding that life conform to their preferences, they explored how to live skillfully within whatever conditions they encountered."
Back to my 2 cents: This doesn't mean we should abandon treatment of mental illness. But maybe in addition to trying to find ways to reduce symptoms it's worth asking "What is my brain trying to tell me in making me aware of these symptoms?". Anxiety for example, can often arise out of situations that can improve after you make some kind of change. The most common one I see is unhappiness at work. It's pretty rare to see work conditions improve as a result of expressing your discontent there, or simply taking time off. You may either need to change your thoughts about work, or find new work.
- Dr. K
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