05/28/2026
The use of laughter in sessions is meant to be helpful not hurtful.
I’m reflecting on this because I’ve had a few instances recently where I got feedback that people felt laughter was minimizing or diminishing their pain. This is never the intention.
I use laughter as a trauma therapist as a tool to help lighten the mood. I also want the client to be able to realize that not everything in their life is bad, negative or about the trauma. They have happy moments too! It’s important to highlight this and it’s also important not to always be focusing on the negative.
When I’m laughing in a session I’m laughing with my client and most (actually almost all) of them appreciate this. I’m very clear - it’s right in my About Me profile - that I use laughter. If this doesn’t appeal to you that’s okay and I’m not going to be right therapist for you.