Whelan Funeral Home Ltd.

Whelan Funeral Home Ltd. We are a local family owned, independent funeral home providing a full range of services to Ottawa a We are available 24/7 to support you in your time of need.

Whelan Funeral Home (WFH) is a family owned, local funeral home providing services to greater Ottawa and surrounding communities. Dedicated to providing personalized service and choice, we support families with a wide variety of options as they make decisions following the loss of a loved one. Whether you wish a traditional funeral, a memorial service or cremation services, we have options to meet your requirements. Centrally located, our heritage building offers facilities which include visitation rooms and a reception area, suitable to accommodate services of all sizes. We offer audio visual aids and equipment that address the needs of today's families. Our experienced, compassionate and detail oriented directors and support staff assist families by providing options to suit their unique wishes.

National Funeral Directors and Morticians Recognition DayA Day to Celebrate Compassion and DedicationToday, we would lik...
03/11/2026

National Funeral Directors and Morticians Recognition Day
A Day to Celebrate Compassion and Dedication

Today, we would like to pay tribute to our colleagues across the nation for their devotion to the families they serve, the communities they support and the profession they honour. To be a funeral director is not a job or career, but rather, it is a calling and it is associated with a lifestyle that includes being available whenever needed.

To tend to these duties requires commitment and empathy. The loss of a loved one is a difficult passage for families and making sure they have all the support they need is essential.

Today we honour fellow funeral directors who strive to provide service excellence to those they support. On their behalf, we consider it a privilege to serve you at a time when most needed.

The Gift of GriefYou will get over your griefA Gentle Voice WhisperedMy darling but what if…What if I were to tell you t...
03/06/2026

The Gift of Grief

You will get over your grief
A Gentle Voice Whispered

My darling but what if…
What if I were to tell you that you have death and grief all wrong?
You’ve had it all backwards all along

What if the death of one was rebirth of another?
A portal to discovering an undying love for self
What if all you’re meant to do is find meaning from their leaving?
Grief’s purpose to help you evolve and grow

Yes, grief brings you to your knees
Cracks open your heart
Shatters the world as you knew it
Who says that death brings pain forever or that
You must give up your life also?

Instead…
Let go of your control, let grief wash away all that no longer works
Question beliefs, are they even yours?
Find new ones to fit, to serve you better

Keep your heart open
Don’t close it or build another wall
Though you are safe and others are out
Isolation will foster inner doubt

Release your guilt, blame and shame – they’re not there to punish you
Allow emotions to be brought back into balance
Ask why they are there and what they want
Examine their true cause as they taunt

Guilt helps reset your own moral compass
Blame permits anger and frustration to move out
Shame is the fear of not being connected and the belief you’re not worthy

Take time to remember the good things in your life
Reopen all the memories of the things that you love
Allow them to fill you up with undying love for self
Examine the emotions and feelings you employ
Allow them to turn your grief and pain into joy

Though death is difficult and it can challenge a person’s beliefs
This is the gift and purpose of Grief.

Anne DeButte

03/02/2026
Making the Decision to Prefund your FuneralWhen preplanning a funeral, individuals and families essentially have two cho...
02/25/2026

Making the Decision to Prefund your Funeral

When preplanning a funeral, individuals and families essentially have two choices. Some decide to prearrange only. With this option a folder is created that includes decisions made on the services that are selected. This becomes a working copy of what will be done at the time of death.

Some individuals and families also choose to prefund their funeral in addition to the prearrangements they make. Two benefits of prefunding are: not burdening surviving family members with payment for services and secondly, freezing prices. Services which are prepaid avoid inflation. Funds are placed in trust and earn income over time, offsetting increases in price.

Many families we serve opt to have arrangements paid for in advance. To find out more about prefunding, please contact us.

© Whelan Funeral Home/CFHC Online

Just Breathe Sometimes individuals experience stress and anxiety when grieving. This can lead to a variety of symptoms i...
02/20/2026

Just Breathe

Sometimes individuals experience stress and anxiety when grieving. This can lead to a variety of symptoms including rapid breathing, sweating, fatigue, increased heart rate and difficulty concentrating. Fear and worrying can dominate personal thought patterns and physical ailments can follow.

If experiencing anxiety, firstly take a moment and compose yourself. It’s about redirecting your focus from a state of panic to a state of calmness. Sit or lie down in a comfortable position. Elongate your back and begin to slow your rate of breathing. If comfortable close your eyes and focus on your surroundings. Listen to the sounds around you. Feel your feet on the floor and your hands beside you. Focus on your breath as you inhale and exhale. Try to breathe deeply from the abdomen. Notice your chest and belly expanding and contracting.

Focus on the here and now, focus on your body as air enters and exits your lungs. Find a place of relaxation and calm. Continue to just breathe until you become comfortable.

If you continue to have anxiety over time consult your physician. They will assess if you need additional support with this condition.

© Whelan Funeral Home/CFHC Online

MARLAND, Paul JepsonPaul Jepson Marland, 82, died on February 11th, 2026 surrounded by his loving family. For a man who ...
02/20/2026

MARLAND, Paul Jepson

Paul Jepson Marland, 82, died on February 11th, 2026 surrounded by his loving family. For a man who often quipped that a pyramid should be built in his honour upon his passing, it seems impossible to summarize Paul’s larger than life qualities. He was a raconteur whose tales never failed to delight his audience. Paul was born in England during WWII to parents Jack and Rosalind. In 1957, the family—spearheaded by his father’s imagination of a new life in North America—moved to Canada, eventually settling in Ottawa and making fast friends within the local British expatriate community. Jack, who served in the Merchant Navy, encouraged Paul to enlist in the Canadian Navy, which he did. Destined to become a teacher, Paul studied at Carleton University and Queen’s University, and by 21 he was employed by the Ottawa Board of Education.

In 1969 he married Christine, who became his wife of 56 years. He was a dedicated teacher of English literature at Ashbury College (1964-66) and several Ottawa high schools, including Brookfield (1966-1980, 1997-2000), Woodroffe (1980-89), and Ridgemont (1989-97), often as department head, where he was known for combining a deep awareness of history and English literature with a caustic British wit. It was not uncommon for Paul to run into former students who professed that he was their favourite teacher.

Paul was a master storyteller who effortlessly wove the absurdities of daily life into a cast of characters he carried along in a dramatic arc. He loved to make people laugh, while also asking them both probing and philosophical questions. As a teacher, he enjoyed producing musicals and school plays at Brookfield High School, and had a soft spot for students from other countries to whom he taught English literature. He encouraged curiosity about the world through didactic conversation about life’s (mis)adventures.

Paul enjoyed the theatre, travelling, playing bridge, reading ferociously, long walks, a passion for history, classical music, his many friendships, and taking joy in learning and thinking. He could recount histories of the English monarchs and quote Shakespeare from memory, but also dabbled in gallows humour when the time was right. He had a sense of the absurd and a wry sense of humour. In retirement, his popular lectures, filled with anecdotes and intrigue, at the library in Almonte dealt with such diverse topics as King Richard III, Nicholas II (the last Tsar of Russia), and crime stories. The opposite of a Luddite, Paul kept up to date with technology and was never far from his iPad, where he researched whatever interested him and even tested the ability of AI to create caricatures of his lifelong beloved monarch: Queen Victoria. Paul said that he lived his life according to his own satisfaction. He was the proud father of three children: Alex (Karly Kehoe), Michael (Patricia Cho), Rosemary (Jeffers Lennox), devoted brother of Shareen (Hugh Montgomery), and fond uncle of Jonathan Killin (Kristina Frolova). He delighted in his grandchildren Rooke, Rosalind, Jack, and Emerson.

We will profoundly miss his humour, companionship, and twinkle in his eyes.

The family extends their gratitude to the caring medical professionals at the General and Civic hospitals, and the health care workers who assisted him at home.

A private celebration of life will be held at a later date.

Arrangements entrusted to the Whelan Funeral Home
tel. (613) 233-1488
https://www.whelanfuneralhome.ca/services.html

From our Friends at Bereaved Families of Ottawa
02/18/2026

From our Friends at Bereaved Families of Ottawa

Join us at Bereaved Families of Ontario – Ottawa Region (BFO Ottawa) for our Support & Share Afternoon, a welcoming space where individuals living with loss can connect, share, and feel supported in community.

This informal gathering offers:
✨ Peer connection
✨ A safe and compassionate space
✨ The opportunity to share (or simply listen)
✨ Understanding from others who truly “get it”

Whether your loss is recent or years ago, you are welcome.

Together, we hold space. Together, we remember. Together, we heal.

Register here: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/ev/reg/yghhk6k

02/16/2026

Amid the grief of losing a loved one, it can be difficult to articulate the impact that person had on your life and…

HALLS, RodneyPeacefully at Extendicare Starwood on Wednesday, January 14, 2026 aged 84 years after a brief illness. Lovi...
02/13/2026

HALLS, Rodney

Peacefully at Extendicare Starwood on Wednesday, January 14, 2026 aged 84 years after a brief illness. Loving father to Cathy Slusar (Clinton) and Christa Poirer (Stephan), beloved grandfather to David and Cal Poirier, uncle to Andrew and Michael Vaillant. Predeceased by his mother Rena Koehler Halls, his father Frank Halls, and sister Maureen Vaillant.

Rod and family moved to Ottawa from the Kitchener/Waterloo area in 1979, in order to establish Buns Master Bakery which Rod owned and operated for 30 plus years - garnering the nickname Bunsy.
Rod's love of life was infectious and he was always on the move: supporting the Ottawa Senators (business & personal), golfing at The Rivermead, square dancing, travelling to warmer climates (Vegas), cruising, or to far off ski hills. His social calendar was always full and he especially enjoyed hosting friends making margaritas on Super Bowl Sunday. He will be fondly remembered by his former spouse Marilyn Montminy and all the friends he made along the way.

The family would like to thank the staff at Starwood Long Term Care for their care and support over the past 6 years. Rod expressed daily his appreciation for the nurses and staff who treated him like family. A small family celebration of Rod's life will be held at a later date. As expressions of sympathy, memorial donations can be made to The Dementia Society of Ottawa and Renfrew County or a charity of your choice.

Arrangements entrusted to the Whelan Funeral Home
tel. (613) 233-1488
https://www.whelanfuneralhome.ca/services.html

DEWAR, Barbara AlethaPeacefully at 87 on January 29, with sister-in-law Louise at her bedside. Beloved daughter of the l...
02/12/2026

DEWAR, Barbara Aletha

Peacefully at 87 on January 29, with sister-in-law Louise at her bedside. Beloved daughter of the late Aletha (Jodoin) and Robert Dewar and cherished big sister of the late Graham Dewar. Barbara is survived by her nephews Jason (Amy) and Jonathan (Miriam) and their children, Claire and Thomas and Sophie and Livia, as well as many cousins from the large Jodoin and Dewar extended families.

Barbara was unfailingly generous to family, friends, and coworkers across many decades, retiring from a long civilian career with the RCMP (1957-1992). Special thanks to the caregivers at Royal Ottawa Place.

Donations to the ROH Foundation appreciated. Mass followed by celebration of life on Tuesday, March 3, 2026 at Resurrection of Our Lord Church, 1940 Saunderson Drive, at 11am. Interment at Beechwood Cemetery in the Spring.

Arrangements entrusted to the Whelan Funeral Home
tel. (613) 233-1488
https://www.whelanfuneralhome.ca/services.html

The Turning of the Bones RitualIn Madagascar, certain ethnic groups practice Famidihana, or ‘the turning of the bones’ r...
02/11/2026

The Turning of the Bones Ritual

In Madagascar, certain ethnic groups practice Famidihana, or ‘the turning of the bones’ ritual. This occurs every 5 to 7 years, where crypts of deceased family members are visited, the bodies are exhumed and families spend the day with their loved one, before they are reclothed and interred back in the family plot. Their skeletal remains are then turned upside down to so that the foot of the grave now becomes the head of the grave.

This practice has at its core, the belief that those who die do not immediately leave this world. The ritual serves these primary purposes: it is a family gathering of sort, where the deceased can reconnect with relatives, it also facilitates the decomposition of the deceased and lastly the deceased is given new garments to wear, replacing old tattered remnants.

The ritual needs to be completed before nightfall, when negative energy and evil powers are present.

How we choose to honour and celebrate the lives of our loved ones varies widely around the world, from our funeral practices here in North America to more elaborate rituals abroad.

© Whelan Funeral Home/CFHC Online

A Movie about Death, Remembering and LifeElizabethtownThis flick follows Drew, (Orlando Bloom), a sports shoe designer w...
02/06/2026

A Movie about Death, Remembering and Life
Elizabethtown

This flick follows Drew, (Orlando Bloom), a sports shoe designer who is having a very bad week. His new design is a flop and his father has died. Then on a flight to make funeral arrangements ‘to get Dad home’, he meets Claire, (Kirsten Dunst), a talkative somewhat overbearing flight attendant.

When he arrives at Elizabethtown, everyone is very friendly and the small-town charm is very noticeable. This hospitality comes with a cost though; there’s a way funeral goodbyes are supposed to happen in Elizabethtown and what Drew wants to do doesn’t fit into the plan of townsfolk.

This drama, romance comedy lightly portrays key life events: funerals, marriages and new love. It is sprinkled with scenes that touch on many contemporary choices we make. There’s the flip phone conversation, the road trip and an unforgettable eulogy.

Sometimes talking with a total stranger is the best medicine, sometimes that is just what is needed.

This movie’s upbeat portrayal of how a young adult faces the death of a loved one is sure to resonate with many… a good watch if in need of some light entertainment to soothe the soul.

© Whelan Funeral Home/CFHC Online

2h 3m | PG-13

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