04/21/2026
It’s called “tired but wired”.
Your body is exhausted but your brain just won’t. shut. up.
That’s because your brain is wired to look for danger.
Worrying is its favourite pastime.
And because most of us don’t have time to think, let alone worry during the day, our brain waits until we’re finally quiet to start telling us everything it’s worried about.
And that’s most likely to happen at bedtime or 3am where there’s nothing else to distract you.
So instead of trying to fight against your brain, try giving it time to worry. Far away from bedtime.
That’s the practice of constructive worry.
It’s simple:
🕐 Set aside 10-15 minutes for a “worry session” several hours before bed
✏️ Jot down any concerns or worries you have on paper. Let them all be acknowledged and aired out.
✅ beside each worry, write down on small actionable step you can take to reduce that worry.
This practice has been show to:
💤 reduce nighttime rumination (aka overthinking)
💤 help you fall asleep faster
💤 reduce racing thoughts
💤 reduce bedtime anxiety
💤 improve sleep quality