10/27/2025
Birth plans are trash - and here’s why
You can’t plan for birth… it is the most unpredictable event you’ll ever experience. I did all the things and was super prepared for a unmedicated vaginal birth. Ha! jokes on me… my water broke and nothing happened. I was induced and didn’t dilate. I caved and got the epidural. And at the end of it all, Violet’s heart rate couldn’t tolerate labour anymore and I needed a c-section. To be honest, I was more upset about the epidural than the c-section but it ended up being a good thing I got one.
You can’t plan for birth and that’s okay… at the end of the day as long as you have a happy, healthy baby that’s all that matters.
But you can have birth PREFERENCES! These are things you’d like to have happen if possible. It’s important to know what options you have and being educated can help bring a sense of calm and clarity into the delivery room.
Birth prep appointments are so great for going over breathing, pushing positions and things you can do to prepare for labour. And in the off chance you need a c-section, we’ll chat about that too!
If you have questions, send me a message or get booked in for an appointment by calling 506-560-0701