29/12/2025
If you’re not sure what day it is, you’re not alone.
If you’re starting to feel slightly guilty about eating everything, staying in your pjs and doing very little, don’t.
Resting means you’re doing something important for you, and also for those around you too.
Enjoy! Xx
Twixmas is possibly one of my favourite times of the year.
These strange few days between Christmas and New Year when no one knows quite what day it is, the inbox goes mercifully quiet and to get dressed feels absolutely optional. Yes, that does mean I am in my pyjamas at 11am, watch the television I’ve ignored all year and eat leftovers from the fridge. It is excellent. All the while I plan my stuffing and turkey-filled sandwich for an entirely unnecessary afternoon snack.
After all the giving, the hosting, the showing up, this bit matters. It’s the exhale. The moment you stop performing and start to notice how tired you actually are. What you’ve had enough of. What you miss. What you don’t want to carry into next year.
For some, this stretch feels very lonely. If that’s you, please know you’re not alone in that feeling.
Twixmas isn’t about fixing yourself or setting goals. It’s about letting yourself rest for a few days. To stop being productive. Do less and feel more. Be more
If you need me, I’ll be right here. Same pyjamas. Let the year catch up with me.
I only write this little note to say you’re allowed to do exactly the same. Absolutely guilt free.
Julia x