Kingsley Avenell - Hypnotherapy + NLP

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27/10/2025

How to Create a Small Win When You Don’t Feel Motivated

Some days, motivation just doesn’t show up.
You stare at the to-do list. You shuffle things around. You might even add something easy just so you can tick it off.
(“make coffee” always looks good as a completed task.)

It’s easy to think motivation is the thing that starts momentum.
But it’s usually the other way round
Action creates motivation, not the other way around.
And the easiest way to start? A small win.

When your energy is low, the idea of tackling something big feels impossible. But doing something tiny sneaks past your resistance.
You can’t convince your brain to take a giant leap —
but you can usually persuade it to take one small step.
And once you’ve moved, even a little, something changes.
The resistance starts to lose its grip and you feel the tiniest flicker of momentum - That’s enough.

Writing a single sentence of the report.
Sending one email.
Opening the document you have been avoiding.
Going for a five-minute walk instead of the full workout.
None of these will change your life in isolation.
But each one whispers the same message: "I’m in motion."
And motion is contagious. You don’t need to feel ready.
You just need to make starting so small that your excuses don’t fit.

Do the five-minute version.
Do the first sentence.
Do something imperfect, but do it.
Because once you start, you’ve already won.
Motivation is unreliable - small wins aren’t.
They don’t wait for inspiration — they create it.

So the next time you find yourself stuck, don’t think big.
Think small enough to begin.

Because one tiny win today beats the perfect plan you never start tomorrow.




12/09/2025

Over the past few weeks I've been working with some of my clients who wanted to grade with Eska Karate during this period. One of the many things we have worked on is to 'day-dream' in big, bold vivid colours. The brighter, the bigger, the more vivid they are, the more they work in sympathy with your unconscious and the more success you will have in achieving them.
What's holding you back from your success?




02/09/2025

I'm starting to get busy with Karate graders with Eska Karate seeking support and confidence to perform their best.
Let me help open the door for you to do your best... 👊🥋




14/07/2025

If your mind tends to race, sit somewhere quiet with no distractions, close your eyes and just count your breaths.
Are your breaths in longer or shorter than the out ones?
Are the gaps between your breaths equal, or is one longer than the other? If you loose count, then just continue from where you left off. Set a timer on your phone for 1 minute to start with then slowly increase it a minute at a time as you get better at concentrating up to about 10 minutes. How did you get on?




19/06/2025

Success.
Putting yourself 'out there' requires effort, courage, tenacity and a willingness to be vulnerable. Anonymous individuals in the sidelines will always try to put you down rather than support and encourage you. It is not the stumbling that defines people, but how you pick yourself up and continue.



17/06/2025

Just had a tremendous result with a client attaining their next belt with Eska Karate with better then hoped for marks and reduced nerves. So what's holding you back?




10/06/2025

If you're finding the pace of life after the weekend a little 'quick' for you at the moment or if you're finding it a struggle to fit everything into your day, try some of the following:
* Take a 'moment' with some slow deep breaths. Slowly breathe in for 2, hold for 2, slowly out for 2. Repeat up to five times
* Stand outside and watch the clouds for ~5 minutes. Maybe you can see some 'Feather Canyons' like Joni Mitchell saw
* Remove your shoes and socks and 'feel' the carpet/clean grass between your toes - if outside maybe do this whilst keep an eye out for those Canyons
Remember - no matter how things feel at this moment, it won't be like this forever.

05/06/2025

As you look forward to your weekend, think about the interactions you are likely to have.
Rather than defining yourself by what you don't like or don't support.
Reframe your life by defining yourself by what you like and what you support. Always think of the positive 😊

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