My Psychological Wellness

My Psychological Wellness Paula Slater MSc Psych GMBPsS:
Helping adults and children discover the very best version of themselves. This is where I come in.

Since 2004, my mission has been to help and empower adults and children to overcome their most challenging obstacles and start living happier and healthier lifestyles. My extensive experience means that I'm fully equipped to guide, support and assist you in building the life you clearly deserve. I have a BA HONS Degree in Children, Schools and Families and have completed an MA in Psychology. My qualifications don't stop there, though; you can view them on the FAQ tab! I aim to create a life balance that prioritises your well-being and celebrates all aspects of your true self. It's time to start nurturing your body and soul again!


Children:
I have worked in education for nearly 20 years helping primary school children by giving them the tools they need to succeed, not only in education but socially and emotionally. I do this by empowering them to understand themselves better, including how their brain works and how it influences their behaviours and choices. Once children are armed with this knowledge, they can use the tools provided to improve their mental health and well-being and ultimately become happier and more confident. Adults:
I have a wealth of experience in dealing with the aftermath of abuse, domestic violence, coercive control, grief, addiction, depression, life coaching, su***de, mental health and well-being and relationships. It isn't always easy to just walk away, tell someone or move on; we first need to be able to accept what has happened, reflect, decide and then take steps to heal. I can work with you to help bring your mind and body back into equilibrium through various therapeutic techniques. I am not a counsellor, so my approach is not linked to any kind of theorist or intervention. Instead, I listen, I hear you, I discover what motivates you and then together, we explore new goals and ambitions in a realistic and time-sensitive manner. I will help you to understand yourself better and learn to love who you are. Signposting:
If for any reason, I feel that you/they require more specialised support, I will signpost you/them to the relevant services and recommend that you seek their help. My role is not to replace any required specialised service but to compliment them by motivating you/them to be inspired.


You've come this far, you've accepted that you or your child needs some extra support - well done! Now allow me to help guide you/them through to a more fulfilling stage of life, after all, we only get one chance at it so let's get it right! All I ask, is that you trust the process.

Rest guilt is wild.You can be exhausted, horizontal, and still feel like you’re somehow doing something wrong.Rest isn’t...
02/02/2026

Rest guilt is wild.

You can be exhausted, horizontal, and still feel like you’re somehow doing something wrong.

Rest isn’t something you take instead of being productive. It’s what makes it possible for you to be productive in the first place!

You made it to the end of January 🤗It was a tough one! However, I made the most of the weather. Instead of complaining a...
30/01/2026

You made it to the end of January 🤗

It was a tough one! However, I made the most of the weather. Instead of complaining about it, I embraced it!

As the temperature drops, it’s tempting to hibernate, but there’s something powerful about embracing the cold. ❄️

Cool air can sharpen our focus, boost energy, and gently nudge us back into the present moment. A brisk walk, rosy cheeks, slower breathing, and a sense of being fully awake in your body can do wonders for your mood and mental clarity.

Cold weather invites us to simplify: fewer distractions, quieter days, more intention. It’s a reminder that discomfort isn’t always something to avoid; it can be a teacher, helping build resilience and appreciation for warmth, rest, and connection. 🧣☕️

So bundle up, step outside, and let winter work its quiet magic on your mind. Your mental health might just thank you for it. 💙

A lot of people think they’re bad at motivating themselves, but motivation can’t be forced 🤔It comes along when your bas...
28/01/2026

A lot of people think they’re bad at motivating themselves, but motivation can’t be forced 🤔

It comes along when your basic psychological needs are being met.

Psychology talks about three core needs:

✅ Competence (feeling capable) – believing you can actually do the thing
✅ Autonomy (feeling in control) – having choice, not pressure
✅ Relatedness (feeling supported) – knowing you’re not doing it on your own

When one of those needs is low, motivation drops - not because you lack discipline, but because you’re wired to function better when these things are in place.

If you’re struggling to get going, check which need isn’t being met.

If you’ve started the year feeling exhausted, stretched thin, or like you’ve already used up all your energy… that’s bur...
26/01/2026

If you’ve started the year feeling exhausted, stretched thin, or like you’ve already used up all your energy… that’s burnout calling 😮‍💨

It creeps in when you’ve been carrying too much for too long - work, family, pressure, the leftovers of December - until even small things feel bigger than they should.

♥️This isn’t you being weak or unmotivated.
💛 This is your system needing a breather.

Talking things through can help you understand what’s draining you and what needs to change so you can feel like yourself again.

www.MyPsychologicalWellness.co.uk

You can care about someone without rescuing them 🛟It’s natural to want to fix things for the people you love, especially...
23/01/2026

You can care about someone without rescuing them 🛟

It’s natural to want to fix things for the people you love, especially when you can see they’re struggling.

But when you jump in every time, you end up carrying their feelings and their responsibilities.

❌ Support doesn’t always mean solving.

Sometimes it means standing beside them while they figure things out in their own way, at their own pace.

That’s how people grow. And it’s how you protect your own energy, too.

Communication isn’t just what you say, it’s the state you’re in when you say it 👇A few reminders that help more than peo...
21/01/2026

Communication isn’t just what you say, it’s the state you’re in when you say it 👇

A few reminders that help more than people realise:

✅ Take a breath before you respond
✅ Slow your voice down a little
✅ Notice if you’re reacting from stress, not intention
✅ You’re allowed to pause or come back to the conversation later

Most conversations improve when you’re calmer, not quicker.

20/01/2026
January can be a difficult time for relationships 😥Divorce rates often spike around this time - a mix of post-Christmas ...
19/01/2026

January can be a difficult time for relationships 😥

Divorce rates often spike around this time - a mix of post-Christmas stress, financial pressure, and the “new year, new start” mindset.

If you’re feeling unsure about the state of your relationship, talking things through can help you make sense of what’s going on and what you need.

🚪My door is always open to help you through.

Please note: These are only a few flags, and on their own are not necessarily anything to worry about. But when there are many things building up, it may be time to talk them through with a trusted person to gain another perspective.🤗

Get in touch at www.MyPsychologicalWellness.co.uk

We all get these days, and I am not immune!
16/01/2026

We all get these days, and I am not immune!

Let your children be bored (It’s good for them) 🧒Boredom gives their brains space to imagine, create and figure things o...
16/01/2026

Let your children be bored (It’s good for them) 🧒

Boredom gives their brains space to imagine, create and figure things out on their own.

And it gives you five minutes to breathe, which is equally important 😂

You don’t need a full itinerary every weekend. Sometimes “go and entertain yourself” is exactly the right answer.

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