My Psychological Wellness

My Psychological Wellness Paula Slater MSc Psych GMBPsS:
Helping adults and children discover the very best version of themselves. This is where I come in.

Since 2004, my mission has been to help and empower adults and children to overcome their most challenging obstacles and start living happier and healthier lifestyles. My extensive experience means that I'm fully equipped to guide, support and assist you in building the life you clearly deserve. I have a BA HONS Degree in Children, Schools and Families and have completed an MA in Psychology. My qu

alifications don't stop there, though; you can view them on the FAQ tab! I aim to create a life balance that prioritises your well-being and celebrates all aspects of your true self. It's time to start nurturing your body and soul again!


Children:
I have worked in education for nearly 20 years helping primary school children by giving them the tools they need to succeed, not only in education but socially and emotionally. I do this by empowering them to understand themselves better, including how their brain works and how it influences their behaviours and choices. Once children are armed with this knowledge, they can use the tools provided to improve their mental health and well-being and ultimately become happier and more confident. Adults:
I have a wealth of experience in dealing with the aftermath of abuse, domestic violence, coercive control, grief, addiction, depression, life coaching, su***de, mental health and well-being and relationships. It isn't always easy to just walk away, tell someone or move on; we first need to be able to accept what has happened, reflect, decide and then take steps to heal. I can work with you to help bring your mind and body back into equilibrium through various therapeutic techniques. I am not a counsellor, so my approach is not linked to any kind of theorist or intervention. Instead, I listen, I hear you, I discover what motivates you and then together, we explore new goals and ambitions in a realistic and time-sensitive manner. I will help you to understand yourself better and learn to love who you are. Signposting:
If for any reason, I feel that you/they require more specialised support, I will signpost you/them to the relevant services and recommend that you seek their help. My role is not to replace any required specialised service but to compliment them by motivating you/them to be inspired.


You've come this far, you've accepted that you or your child needs some extra support - well done! Now allow me to help guide you/them through to a more fulfilling stage of life, after all, we only get one chance at it so let's get it right! All I ask, is that you trust the process.

Counsellors focus on what’s happening in the here and now. Psychologists like me? We look at the past. Why? Because that...
02/09/2025

Counsellors focus on what’s happening in the here and now. Psychologists like me? We look at the past. Why? Because that’s often where the patterns and answers are hiding.

It’s a bit like Back to the Future: sometimes you need to revisit where you’ve been before you can move forward with less baggage.

Therapy with me isn’t about being stuck in the past - it’s about understanding it, so you can finally change what’s happening today.

Free 30-minute consultations are open if you’d like to chat.

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🍂 Autumn Reflections 🍂I often notice how nature mirrors the seasons of our own lives. Autumn, with its falling leaves an...
01/09/2025

🍂 Autumn Reflections 🍂

I often notice how nature mirrors the seasons of our own lives. Autumn, with its falling leaves and shifting colours, gently reminds us that letting go is not the end, but a beautiful and necessary part of growth.

The trees don’t cling to their leaves out of fear; they release them with trust that something new will come in time. In the same way, we can allow ourselves to release old habits, thoughts, or even chapters of life that no longer serve us.

Autumn teaches us patience, resilience, and the quiet power of transformation. It whispers that change can be both gentle and beautiful. 🍁

So as you notice the crisp air and golden leaves this season, take a moment to ask yourself: What am I ready to let go of, so I can make space for what’s next?

Picture: Me with two of my favs 😍

I wonder how many people out there try therapy once and think it’s not for them? 🤔I bet the percentage is high, and I be...
29/08/2025

I wonder how many people out there try therapy once and think it’s not for them? 🤔

I bet the percentage is high, and I bet it’s also because they don’t find a genuine connection with that specific therapist.

It is absolutely essential that you feel heard and understood by your therapist. That’s why I take the time to truly get to know you, not just the challenges you’re currently facing.

Then, using tried and tested techniques, compassion and empathy, we’ll work together to overcome your struggles, permanently.

If you’re looking for a psychologist who fosters a genuine connection with their clients, book a 30-minute free consultation with me. I bet you’ll find a newfound confidence in therapy.

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Me trying to emotionally regulate on a Monday after 2 coffees and no breakfast! 🤪Who can relate? 🫣😂
27/08/2025

Me trying to emotionally regulate on a Monday after 2 coffees and no breakfast! 🤪

Who can relate? 🫣😂

25/08/2025

Can you believe September is on the horizon?!

And as it gets closer, many children (and parents!) feel those familiar back-to-school butterflies. New classrooms, routines, or even friendships can bring on anxiety for our kids… but it doesn’t have to take over.

Here are 3 handy ways to ease transition anxiety:

1. Create calm routines early. Start the school-run-rhythm a week before term, including consistent bedtimes, breakfast habits, and morning check-ins to help ease kids back into things.

2. Talk about it. Let your child share their worries, but don’t rush to fix them. Sometimes, they just want to be heard.

3. Focus on positives. Remind them of past times they were brave, made friends, or tried something new. Confidence grows with small wins.

If your child is still feeling overwhelmed after a few weeks, don’t worry. Some little ones need more support than others, and that’s okay.

I offer compassionate support for your child if they do need a little extra help. No cold offices. No pressure. Just warmth, understanding, and space to grow.
Feel free to message me or visit mypsychologicalwellness.co.uk to learn more about how I can help.

I became a psychologist because I want to help others, but also because I’ve endured challenges that have had a profound...
22/08/2025

I became a psychologist because I want to help others, but also because I’ve endured challenges that have had a profound effect on my life.

I had a troubled childhood, and these early challenges stayed with me long into adulthood.

Then, as a mother, I faced the unimaginable heartache of losing a child, and shortly after, I lost my mum, on Mother’s Day. In the years that followed, I also lost a much loved cousin to cancer and 2 dear friends to su***de.

Yet, despite this profound grief, I refused to let sadness define my life. I channelled my heartache into earning an MSc in Psychology and establishing My Psychological Wellness in Penwortham. Now, I pour my energy into helping others, like me, come out the other side of unimaginable darkness.

Each day, I offer adults and children a safe space to be heard without scientific jargon, clinical white coats, or judgment. Through a blend of CBT, person-centred care, and psychological theory, I work alongside my clients to navigate their challenges and build healthier, happier lives.

From someone who understands more than you can imagine, recovery is possible. Together, we can unlock the very best version of you 💛

As you may have noticed, I love quotes. They really help me make sense of the world, even when it feels totally overwhel...
20/08/2025

As you may have noticed, I love quotes. They really help me make sense of the world, even when it feels totally overwhelming and confusing.

I’d love to know some of your favourite inspirational quotes. Which ones have stuck with you and made an impact on your life? Drop them in the comments below 🥰

18/08/2025

Self-compassion and self-esteem. They sound similar, but what’s the actual difference?

To make it extra clear, self-esteem says: “I like myself... when I’m smashing it.”
On the other hand, self-compassion says: “I’m still alright... even when I’m falling apart a bit.”

Self-esteem’s brilliant when things are going well. But when it all goes pear-shaped, self-compassion steps in, pops the kettle on, and reminds you you’re still doing your best.

Self-esteem wants you to feel good because you’re doing well. Self-compassion reminds you to be kind to yourself, even when you’re not doing so well.

So if your self-esteem has gone missing lately, try practising some self-compassion instead. It’s gentler, more reliable and doesn’t ghost you when life feels tough.

🏠 When you come for a consultation, you’ll be welcomed into a warm and cosy space that feels more like a living room tha...
15/08/2025

🏠 When you come for a consultation, you’ll be welcomed into a warm and cosy space that feels more like a living room than a clinical setting. I aim to help you feel at ease from the very beginning.

👪 During the session, I’ll invite you to talk about what’s currently challenging you and how you're coping. We’ll also briefly discuss any relevant medical conditions and family background so that I can gain a fuller understanding of your situation: it's important to me to see the whole picture, not just one part of it.

🌿 I’ll then take a moment to explain how I work, so you know what to expect and we’re on the same page from the start.

📖 We'll review the therapeutic agreement, which outlines how we will work together.

🤗 There’s no pressure to commit immediately; I encourage you to take some time to think it over before making a decision.

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Good luck to all my wonderful A-Level clients getting their results today! 🌟Remember, a grade on a piece of paper doesn’...
14/08/2025

Good luck to all my wonderful A-Level clients getting their results today! 🌟

Remember, a grade on a piece of paper doesn’t define your worth, your intelligence, or your future. It’s just one moment in your journey, and there are so many paths to success and happiness.

Whatever the outcome, you are still the same brilliant, capable, and unique person you were yesterday, and your story is only just beginning. 💛

You’ve got this! ✨

You know me… I’m choosing both 😏But seriously, if you absolutely had to pick one mind-nurturing option, which would it b...
13/08/2025

You know me… I’m choosing both 😏

But seriously, if you absolutely had to pick one mind-nurturing option, which would it be? Tell me in the comments!

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