30/10/2025
How many of us want things instantly?
It’s hard not to when we live in a world where we can order dinner, book a holiday, and find a date in just a few taps.
A big downside to this?
When your business, your relationship, or your health goal doesn’t take off immediately or even more worryingly - slows down - your first instinct is to question it… or quit.
This episode is about the patience of the ‘Ruler archetype’ 🤴🏻👸🏽 within us. The part of us which is grounded in confidence, is willing to play the long game and trusts in steadiness, structure and strategy over sudden spikes and hypes. Because we all need to connect with this archetype once in a while!
I dive into the 5-year rule - a gentle reminder that progress takes time and that the middle phase isn’t failure, it’s foundation-building. This is where we grow the capacity to carry what we’re asking for and to stick with the knowing that it will all come to fruition.
I have a friend to thank for this guidance as it helped me a lot this year!
I definitely needed the reminder that Year 3 in business isn’t supposed to be perfect. At the end of the day, a 3 year old child may have just mastered the art of fastening velcro shoes, so why do we put pressure on ourselves in such short spaces of time?
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