M. Rushton Funeral Directors

26/10/2025

Some lovely ideas here from Cruse Bereavement Support ❤️

When someone dies, it’s natural to fear losing their memory. While you’ll never forget them, finding ways to honour their life can help.

On our website, we've shared some suggestions of ways to remember- from creating a memory box or writing a letter to donating to charity:

https://ow.ly/3j6C50XhEle

If you have any suggestions of ways to remember someone, please share them in the comments 💜

25/10/2025

As the clocks change ... some very helpful information from Cruse Bereavement Support 🍂

Just like grief, everybody feels differently about seasonal changes.

In our latest blog, we explore the affect seasonal change can have on us, both physically and emotionally. We also share some of our tips for supporting our wellbeing as we head into winter.

Find out more ⬇️

https://ow.ly/Evbf50XhzqL

22/10/2025

Coping With Grief Part 4

Understand the stages of grief.

Grief is complex, but understanding the five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance can help.

Recognising where you are in this process can make sense of your emotions and reassure you that you are making progress, even if it feels slow. However, it is important to remember that the stages are not always linear, we can jump from one stage to the other and back sometimes, this is normal too.

Remember, if your grief feels overwhelming and you would like support, to reach out to one the many grief charities and organisations, or to your GP.

You are not alone.

16/10/2025

We cherish every single kind word, and can not thank you enough, for thinking of us at such a difficult time. Thank You ❤️

15/10/2025

Michael and I have lit our candle (shown below), it is shining brightly to remember our babies taken too soon. We remember them and we also remember and honour all the babies taken too soon in our community and around the world. We send our heartfelt love and condolences to everyone who is missing their babies today and every day. We see you and feel your loss. You are not alone ❤️

15/10/2025

Today, people around the world light candles at 7 p.m. to honour babies lost during pregnancy, childbirth, or infancy.

This global wave of light symbolises love, remembrance, and support.

Join us by lighting a candle and placing it in your window.

Share your tribute online to help raise awareness and support grieving families.

Michael and I will be lighting our candles and sharing it with you this evening.

Thinking of you all, you are not alone.

15/10/2025

Coping With Grief Part 3

Seek out support.

Finding professional support for grief can be a huge help.

Joining a support group, either online or in person, connects you with people who truly understand.

Talking to a grief counsellor or psychotherapist can also help you work through deeper feelings and find a way forward.

There are many wonderful charities and organisations that offer grief support, there are also private counsellors or you can ask your GP for support.

14/10/2025

Cruse Bereavement Support offer helpful information and wonderful support.

We will all face grief in our lives, and yet all of our experiences will be different 💜

There is so much more to grief than people often realise, and there is no 'right' way to grieve.

For more information about grief and available support, please visit our website:

https://ow.ly/jrEy50XaYKM

10/10/2025

Let's talk mental health.

World mental health day is an opportunity to talk about your mental health and make space for others to do the same.

Starting a conversation isn't always easy, whether you’re opening up or checking in on a loved one.

If you’re sharing, choose someone you trust and a comfortable space. Be prepared for their reaction—give them time to process.

If you're listening, give them your full attention, ask questions, and ask how you can help.

If you are struggling please do reach out for support from one of the many mental health charities and organisations, such as or to your GP.

You are not alone.

09/10/2025

Hospice Care Week celebrates the incredible work hospices do—at home, in the community, and beyond.

This year’s theme, “Hospice care is more than you think,” reminds us that hospice care is about living well, not just end-of-life care.

We are so very grateful for the support hospices give and our local hospice, Queenscourt Hospice, has cared for many of our family and friends, we can not thank them enough.

Find out more at: https://www.hospiceuk.org/our-campaigns/hospice-care-week

09/10/2025

Baby Loss Awareness Week (Oct 9 - 15) is a time to raise awareness, share stories, and support families affected by pregnancy and infant loss.

On Oct 15 at 7 p.m., join the global Wave of Light by lighting a candle in memory of babies lost too soon. Michael and I will be lighting our candles.

This simple act brings people together in love, remembrance, and support.

03/10/2025

Grand Opening – Pinks Funeral Directors, Caterham

On 1st August, we proudly celebrated the grand opening of our new Pinks Funeral Directors branch in Caterham. While the location is new, Pinks has a long-standing legacy of compassionate care, and we’re thrilled to extend that tradition into the Caterham community.

The event was a fantastic success, thanks to the dedication of Karen, our Area Development Manager, and the brilliant team at Pinks who worked tirelessly to prepare the branch and welcome guests.

We were honoured to be joined by The Hon. Councillor Mike Crane, Chairman of Tandridge District Council, whose presence added a special touch to the occasion.

A highlight of the day was Caterham Town Crier and valued team member Sonia, who brought tradition and ceremony to life with her official duties—making the celebration truly memorable.

Thank you to everyone who joined us in marking this exciting new chapter for Pinks in Caterham.

02/10/2025

This month we’re exploring the topic of coping with grief. Check in each week for helpful advice and guidance.

Grief is a unique journey for everyone; there's no set timeline.

It can bring overwhelming emotions like anger, guilt, and deep sadness, and even manifest as physical symptoms.

All of these reactions are normal. Don’t be afraid to seek support from loved ones or professionals.

29/09/2025

Don’t miss a beat on World Heart Day.

One in five people will die early from cardiovascular disease (CVD), which claims more lives than cancer and chronic respiratory diseases combined. Yet, up to 80% of heart disease and stroke cases are preventable. That’s why, every 29 September, we celebrate World Heart Day to raise awareness of CVD and the importance of taking care of your heart.

Find out more about World Heart Day and what you can do to join in: https://world-heart-federation.org/world-heart-day/about-whd/

26/09/2025

James Brown & Sons Supporting “Saddle Up” Holiday Bible Club

Last month, our Newtownabbey branch had the joy of supporting the “Saddle Up” Holiday Bible Club, made possible through the James Brown & Sons Community Fund.

Led by our fantastic team member Claire, the initiative brought together children and families for a week of western-themed fun, crafts, games, and storytelling—all hosted by the local church. The energy was infectious, and it was clear how much the event meant to everyone involved.

We were proud to play a small part in making the week a success. Claire spent time at the club during the week, joined the family BBQ on Saturday, and attended the Sunday Church service—strengthening the bond between our team and the local community.

A huge thank you to Claire for championing this initiative. It’s moments like these that remind us how powerful community connections can be.

24/09/2025

Walking Through Fire for a Cause

On 9th October, Tony Harms, Funeral Manager at James Hawes & Goodchild Funeral Directors, will be stepping up—literally—for charity. Tony is taking on a Fire Walk to raise vital funds for North London Hospice, an organisation that provides compassionate end-of-life care and support to families across the region.

This bold challenge reflects the same unwavering dedication Tony brings to his role every day. We’re incredibly proud of his courage and commitment, and we’re rallying behind him as he walks through fire for a truly meaningful cause.

Donate today and help make a difference: https://www.justgiving.com/page/anthony-harms13

22/09/2025

We’re proud to congratulate six outstanding colleagues on their achievements:

✨ Diploma in Funeral Directing
Tutored by Ian Reynolds, NAFD Approved Tutor and Operational Support Manager at Funeral Partners:
• Aimee Hughes
• Lisa Parker
• Katie Halford
• Victoria Fallon

📜 Certificate in Funeral Arranging and Administration
• Mollie Dowling
• Jade Cross

Your dedication, compassion, and professionalism are an inspiration to us all. Here's to the next chapter in your journey supporting families and communities with care and dignity. 💐

National Association of Funeral Directors

19/09/2025

GE Hartley & Son Take on Malham Cove – and a Bull – for Charity!

The incredible team from GE Hartley & Son Funeral Directors recently tackled a challenging charity walk through the breath taking Malham Cove in the Yorkshire Dales.

What was meant to be a 13-mile trek turned into a 15-mile adventure—thanks to an unexpected detour caused by a runaway bull! From rock climbing to rugged terrain, the team powered through with laughter, resilience, and plenty of Yorkshire grit.

Together, they raised an amazing £1,385 for the Alzheimer's Society. A huge well done to everyone involved—your determination and good humour turned a wild walk into a wonderful memory.

18/09/2025

A Fond Farewell to a True Country Gentleman

G&M Goold Funeral Directors, were honoured to conduct a heartfelt farewell for a beloved local farm hand whose life was deeply rooted in the land—and in his love for tractors.

The service reflected his passion for the countryside, with thoughtful touches that celebrated his character and the life he lived. It was a privilege to support his family in saying goodbye.

A fitting tribute to a well-respected member of the local farming community.

15/09/2025

September is Vascular Disease Awareness Month, a time to shine a light on the importance of prevention and early action.

Vascular disease often develops silently, so maintaining a healthy lifestyle early is key to prevention. Staying active through daily movement, choosing heart-smart foods, quitting smoking, and keeping an eye on your blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar can make a profound difference.

This month, let’s commit to small changes that lead to stronger vessels and healthier lives. Share this message, encourage loved ones to get screened, and be part of a movement that prioritises prevention over crisis.

10/09/2025

W. Storey Funeral Service had the honour of working with Cleveland Fire Brigade to pay respect to one of the brigades former colleagues.

The 93 minute procession to the crematorium involved 8 Fire Engines, over 300 serving men and women and a guard of honour in the local fire station.

08/09/2025

Did you know that 1 in 2 strokes and heart attacks are caused by high blood pressure—and 6 million people in the UK don’t even know they have it? That’s why this week matters.

Each September Blood Pressure UK holds Know Your Numbers Week, raising awareness about the silent risks of high blood pressure and encouraging everyone to have their blood pressure tested.

Why it matters:
- High blood pressure often has no symptoms
- It can lead to heart disease, stroke, kidney failure, and dementia
- Early detection means better outcomes and healthier lives

Find your nearest free blood pressure check at https://www.bloodpressureuk.org/know-your-numbers/find-your-nearest-free-blood-pressure-check/

Blood Pressure UK

05/09/2025

Murray’s Funeral Directors have launched a community allotment where people who have experienced grief can get together and enjoy the simple pleasures of gardening.

Thyme to Grow – a dedicated plot at the Thorntree Lane Allotments in Swadlincote is open to anyone looking to reconnect with nature, share peaceful moments, and enjoy discovering what can be grown.

Funeral Director Megan Smart who is leading the project said : “Sometimes families that we have looked after can feel lost following the funeral of their loved one, and we thought this might be a nice way to gently introduce something new to their week, where some focus can be placed".