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Sylvia Tan Psychology Consultancy Pte Ltd is a private counselling and psychology clinic specialising in grief, anxiety, depression, trauma and divorce recovery.

This one’s deeply personal.As a child, I was often told to “calm down,” “stop overreacting,” or “be quiet”—especially wh...
01/05/2025

This one’s deeply personal.
As a child, I was often told to “calm down,” “stop overreacting,” or “be quiet”—especially when I was excited, upset, or simply being myself. Over time, I learned to silence myself to be “good,” to not cause any trouble.

But that silence followed me into adulthood. I found it hard to speak up, to ask for what I needed—especially in work settings or in relationships.

Being silent kept me safe but I became invisible. I was depressed, lonely and felt insignificant.

Taking steps to heal my inner child was when things start to change.

Healing was a gradual process . It began when I started listening to the younger version of me—the part that only ever wanted to be heard and seen.

And today, I help others heal their wounded child and grow into their authentic selves.

I see you . You can heal too.

❤️Sylvia

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If you are single this Valentine’s Day, you may be feeling sad, down, unwanted, alone . We have all been conditioned to ...
14/02/2025

If you are single this Valentine’s Day, you may be feeling sad, down, unwanted, alone .
We have all been conditioned to believe that we need someone to make us feel whole and complete, and our happiness lie in finding our one true love.
But the truth is we are already whole and complete as we are, just that our minds and our ego do not see it or recognise it.
If you would for a moment , take some time to be still and connect into your heart and feel yourself , sense your whole being without judgement , you will feel the love inside of you, which already exist. This is the love that has always been with you and it has never left you.
Would you love yourself today , even if you don’t have a Valentine ?
The love that you seek is actually in you already, waiting to be embraced by you.

As the year draws to a close, many of us use the end of the year to reflect on how much we’ve accomplished, learned, or ...
24/12/2024

As the year draws to a close, many of us use the end of the year to reflect on how much we’ve accomplished, learned, or grown.

However, if you’re feeling the weight of unmet goals, comparing yourself to others or being hard on yourself for not having achieved enough, you need to 𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐏! 

I want you to hear this: 𝘠𝘰𝘶’𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘳, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦!

Measuring yourself against others, or even against yourself, is a sure way to leave you feeling depressed, anxious, and “not good enough.”

There is no fixed timeline for success. Everyone has their own timeline. The year’s end doesn’t mean you must have everything done, accomplished or figured out by December 31st.

How about flipping the switch before the year ends?

Instead of being critical and judgmental toward yourself, how about showing kindness and compassion to yourself?

Being kind to yourself is saying:
🩵 “It’s been a tough year, but I did the best I could.”
💚 “I may not have achieved what I hoped for this year, and that’s ok.”
🩷 “Despite all the challenges, I am so grateful for the support of my friends and family.”

Rather than focusing on achievements, how about reflecting on what you need to let go of as we move into 2025?

It might be time to let go of self-criticism, limiting beliefs, toxic relationships, or the identity of “not being good enough.”

Clear out those negative thoughts and renew your mind and spirit with a greater understanding and acceptance of yourself, greater self-love, and more compassion.

If you need support with this, I have a few openings for 1:1 coaching and therapy in the new year. Feel free to DM me for a free discovery call.

Here’s wishing everyone a blessed Christmas and Happy Holidays! 🎄✨

❤️ Sylvia Tan

While we don’t traditionally celebrate Thanksgiving in Singapore, having a day just celebrate all that life has given to...
28/11/2024

While we don’t traditionally celebrate Thanksgiving in Singapore, having a day just celebrate all that life has given to us is a wonderful thing.
There are a lot of benefits of being grateful. Research has consistently shown the benefits of practicing gratitude.
-Regular practice of gratitude is linked to increased happiness, life satisfaction and positive emotions.
-Expressing gratitude to your loved ones , colleagues and friends can improve relationships with them.
-Remembering things, people or situations that you are grateful for can help reduce feelings of depression , anxiety and loneliness .
So take a moment to reflect , what are you grateful for today ?
I am grateful for my family and my dear friends in my life . Happy Thanksgiving everyone ! ❤️

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