05/21/2026
I don’t talk about this much, but I think it might help someone who feels stuck right now.
For over 5+ years, I struggled with fertility. A lot of people see my work now and assume I always had clarity around this, but I didn’t. I thought I understood my body because I was tracking everything and doing “all the right things,” but I still wasn’t getting pregnant.
It started with small things. Mid-cycle spotting, irregular cycles that didn’t make sense, test results that were “fine” but didn’t explain what I was feeling. So I did what most women do. I tried more. More tracking, more supplements, more appointments, more trying to fix every symptom as soon as it showed up.
But instead of feeling clearer, I felt more confused. Every cycle felt like starting over. And even though I was working in this field, I still couldn’t see the full picture in my own journey.
At 40, I went deeper into treatment. 4 IUIs, all failed. Then IVF. 15 eggs retrieved, 7 embryos at day 3, 3 made it to day 5, and 1 was genetically normal. That became our only chance.
We transferred that embryo in October 2020 and I waited through one of the hardest two-week waits of my life.
It worked. At 42, I gave birth to my daughter at home.
And then something unexpected happened later. At 44, I got pregnant naturally. No planning, no intervention, just my body doing something I didn’t think was possible anymore.
That’s when everything shifted for me. It was never about doing more. It was about finally understanding what my body was actually doing and working with it instead of constantly trying to fix it.
After this, I realized how many women were in the exact same place I was. Doing a lot, trying everything, but still not having clarity.
That’s why I created the Mala Fertility Method, to help women understand their cycle, their patterns, and what actually matters for their fertility so they can stop guessing every month and start moving with more clarity.
If this feels familiar, I’m currently opening a small number of spots. DM me “I’M IN” and I’ll send you the details.