02/24/2025
When I became a mom, it felt like my life flipped upside down⦠meanwhile, it seemed like my partnerās world barely shifted š
He went to work, kept his social life intact, and I was left carrying all the weight. I felt resentful, overwhelmed, & invisible.
Moms often take on the role of household CEO, managing everything from feeding schedules to laundry to appointments. But thereās no paycheck, no promotion, and often, no āthank youā. I didnāt need him to do it all, but I needed him to see me.
So I got specific:
š What did I really need help with?
š How could he make me feel more valued?
š How could we both support each other beyond parenting?
It wasnāt easy, but those conversations made all the difference. If youāre feeling forgotten or resentful, rememberāitās okay to ask for love, appreciation, and support. You deserve it.
Whatās one way youāve shared your needs with your partner? Letās talk in the commentsāyouāre not alone in this ā¤ļø