07/14/2025
Someone asked me,
“What’s one thing you wish all expecting parents knew?”
Here it is:
🗣️ Don’t wait until you’re in survival mode to plan for postpartum.
The newborn stage is beautiful and hard. You’re healing, learning to feed your baby, adjusting to new roles, and running on broken sleep. It’s a lot.
Here’s what I wish every parent did before baby arrives:
📝 Set up a simple meal train
🛏️ Block off time to rest, even if it’s just 30 minutes a day
🧼 Ask for help with chores (yes, make a list for visitors!)
🍼 Learn about feeding and what’s “normal” newborn behavior
🧠 Choose one or two people you trust for emotional support
💛 Hire or line up postpartum help if you’re able, whether that’s a doula, therapist, family member, or friend
You deserve to feel supported, prepared, and less alone in this season.
It’s okay to ask for help. It’s okay not to love every minute.
You are enough just as you are.
If you want help planning your postpartum, I’ve got you.
DM me or check out Beyondbumpmamas.com for resources.