01/05/2026
"I'm the one that was inflicting the pain, which was very difficult for me."
Lisa Liveringhouse shares one of the hardest truths about family caregiving throughout Maricopa County and parts of Pinal County.
Sometimes loving your parent means causing them pain.
Repositioning to prevent bedsores. Cleaning wounds. Necessary care that hurts even when done with gentleness.
Lisa describes the emotional weight of being the one inflicting pain on her mother, Wanda. And how American Premier's team helped her carry that weight.
Through the CNA who bathed her mother, nurses George and Joyce, and friendships with chaplain Julia, Dan, and Teresa, Lisa found something critical:
Emotional support that convinced her she wasn't causing harm.
Her mother knew everything Lisa did came from love.
This is what caregivers struggle with alone:
Guilt over necessary care causing discomfort
Anguish of being both comfort and pain
Questioning whether you can continue
What made the difference for Lisa? A team that:
Recognized her emotional struggle
Validated her feelings
Convinced her love, not harm, defined her actions
Developed genuine friendships
Made it possible to continue
Professional hospice care isn't just managing the patient's pain. It's supporting family caregivers through the emotional pain of providing that care.Without this support, caregivers burn out, collapse, or stop caregiving entirely.
If you're experiencing caregiver guilt about causing discomfort during necessary care: You're not alone. You don't have to carry that emotional weight without support.
Thank you, Lisa, for this vulnerable truth. Your story helps other families know they're not alone.
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