10/20/2025
People lack accountability, then say, 'You could've talked to me.' No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. And honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand.
I'm not obligated to pour my heart out to someone who prioritizes being right over being empathetic. True communication requires active listening, emotional intelligence, and a willingness to understand the other person's perspective. When someone consistently disregards these principles, it's clear that they're not invested in meaningful dialogue.
I've learned to prioritize my own emotional well-being and set boundaries to protect myself from toxic interactions. If someone's primary goal is to "win" a conversation, I'll let them have their victory. My peace of mind is worth more than engaging in draining and unproductive debates.
