Geoff Steurer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Geoff Steurer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist www.geoffsteurer.com

11/22/2025

Messing up is not what breaks healing.

After betrayal, even small slips can feel huge.
A defensive tone.
A forgotten detail.
A moment that looks a little too much like the past.

But the real turning point isn’t the mistake
It’s what happens after.

In this episode, we talk about:
• Why these moments feel so threatening to the betrayed partner
• What shame triggers inside the recovering partner
• How the way you respond shapes safety more than the mistake itself

🎧 Listen to the full episode now and download our free guide You, Me, Us: A Way Forward After Betrayal—a simple framework for safe, honest sharing that helps rebuild trust.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust (link in bio)
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help.

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program (link in bio)

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website (link in bio)
📩 Subscribe to My Email List (link in bio)

11/22/2025

Messing up is not what breaks healing.

After betrayal, even small slips can feel huge.
A defensive tone.
A forgotten detail.
A moment that looks a little too much like the past.

But the real turning point isn’t the mistake
It’s what happens after.

In this episode, we talk about:
• Why these moments feel so threatening to the betrayed partner
• What shame triggers inside the recovering partner
• How the way you respond shapes safety more than the mistake itself

🎧 Listen now: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149115546

▶️ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5WfZUchelFU

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media

🌱 You investing in your growth invites the relationship to grow too.🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding...
11/20/2025

🌱 You investing in your growth invites the relationship to grow too.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media
🎙️ Listen to the Latest ‘From Crisis to Connection’ Podcast Episode: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149111686

Watch the latest podcast on You Tube: https://youtu.be/c6VQ6t9N6s8

🛡 Before you label yourself ‘broken’ or ‘difficult,’ ask what your pain is trying to say.🎁 Download My Free Course: Firs...
11/18/2025

🛡 Before you label yourself ‘broken’ or ‘difficult,’ ask what your pain is trying to say.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media
🎙️ Listen to the Latest ‘From Crisis to Connection’ Podcast Episode: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149111686

Watch the latest podcast on You Tube: https://youtu.be/c6VQ6t9N6s8

11/13/2025

You’re not supposed to heal at the same pace.

After betrayal, it’s easy to look at each other and wonder:

Why am I slower? Why are you faster? What does this mean about us?

The truth is, you’re doing different work, with different wounds, different responsibilities, and different starting points.

You’re not behind.

You’re not ahead.

You’re simply healing from different positions in the same story.

🎧 Listen to the full episode now and download our free guide You, Me, Us: A Way Forward After Betrayal—a simple framework for safe, honest sharing that helps rebuild trust.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust (link in bio)
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help.

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program (link in bio)

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website (link in bio)
📩 Subscribe to My Email List (link in bio)

11/13/2025

You’re not supposed to heal at the same pace.
After betrayal, it’s easy to look at each other and wonder:
Why am I slower? Why are you faster? What does this mean about us?
The truth is, you’re doing different work, with different wounds, different responsibilities, and different starting points.
You’re not behind.
You’re not ahead.
You’re simply healing from different positions in the same story.

🎧 Listen now: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149111686

▶️ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/c6VQ6t9N6s8

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

📅 Show up. Stay honest. Keep choosing repair.🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding TrustIf you’re navigat...
11/13/2025

📅 Show up. Stay honest. Keep choosing repair.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media
🎙️ Listen to the Latest ‘From Crisis to Connection’ Podcast Episode: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149109403

Watch the latest podcast on You Tube: https://youtu.be/xLNdzNjaYXk

💔 Sometimes we think love alone should fix everything. But if there’s no trust, no repair, no safety… love can’t do its ...
11/11/2025

💔 Sometimes we think love alone should fix everything. But if there’s no trust, no repair, no safety… love can’t do its job.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media
🎙️ Listen to the Latest ‘From Crisis to Connection’ Podcast Episode: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149109403

Watch the latest podcast on You Tube: https://youtu.be/xLNdzNjaYXk

11/06/2025

We all want love to be enough.

If you really loved me, you’d just know what I need.

You’d understand how to comfort me, how to repair, how to show up the right way.

But love doesn’t automatically teach those things.

I think of love as the motivation, drive, and action that helps us learn how to be there for others.

In this episode of From Crisis to Connection, Jody and I talk about what happens when love is present but understanding is missing. We unpack:

*Why betrayed partners often feel unloved when needs are missed
*The pressure recovering partners feel to “get it right”
*Why love has to grow into practice, not just emotion
*What it really takes to rebuild safety and connection after betrayal

🎧 Listen to the full episode now and download our free guide You, Me, Us: A Way Forward After Betrayal—a simple framework for safe, honest sharing that helps rebuild trust.

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust (link in bio)
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help.

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program (link in bio)

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website (link in bio)
📩 Subscribe to My Email List (link in bio)

11/06/2025

We all want love to be enough.

If you really loved me, you’d just know what I need.

You’d understand how to comfort me, how to repair, how to show up the right way.

But love doesn’t automatically teach those things.

I think of love as the motivation, drive, and action that helps us learn how to be there for others.

In this episode of From Crisis to Connection, Jody and I talk about what happens when love is present but understanding is missing. We unpack:
* Why betrayed partners often feel unloved when needs are missed
* The pressure recovering partners feel to “get it right”
* Why love has to grow into practice, not just emotion
* What it really takes to rebuild safety and connection after betrayal

🎧 Listen now to Shouldn’t Love Be Enough? and learn how love becomes healing when it’s paired with honesty, vulnerability, and effort: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149109403

▶️ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xLNdzNjaYXk

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media

I’d love for you to join me at the Annual S. A. Lifeline Conference this November 7–8, 2025. I’ll be sharing The Healing...
11/06/2025

I’d love for you to join me at the Annual S. A. Lifeline Conference this November 7–8, 2025. I’ll be sharing The Healing Couples Framework: Rebuilding Trust Through Everyday Recovery—a hopeful roadmap for couples wanting to heal together. Use my code GSteurer10off to save $10 on registration.

https://whova.com/portal/registration/JE32BvD9ggkzdg4q9T2z/?mc_cid=e860d47706

🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media
🎙️ Listen to the Latest ‘From Crisis to Connection’ Podcast Episode: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149106298

Watch the latest podcast on You Tube: https://youtu.be/lfe3olXxnlU

⏳ Healing doesn’t speed up just because you want it to—it deepens when safety becomes the focus. When safety is prioriti...
11/03/2025

⏳ Healing doesn’t speed up just because you want it to—it deepens when safety becomes the focus. When safety is prioritized over rushing the timeline, real trust and repair can begin. 💙



🎁 Download My Free Course: First Steps to Rebuilding Trust
If you’re navigating broken trust in your relationship, whether you’re the one who broke it or you’ve been deeply impacted by it, this free video course can help: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie

📋Join me in the Courageous Together™ Program: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/courageous-together

Let’s Stay Connected:
🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com
📩 Subscribe to My Email List: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/newsletter-opt-in-social-media
🎙️ Listen to the Latest ‘From Crisis to Connection’ Podcast Episode: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149106298

Watch the latest podcast on You Tube: https://youtu.be/lfe3olXxnlU

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