
08/26/2025
I've heard the reasoning behind why you might not want to focus on the good, and I still don't agree.
- You want to never think of yourself too highly
- You want to be prepared if things don't go well
- You want to remain humble (not how I define humility, but okay)
- If you focus on what didn't work, it helps you fix those parts and be better
I am not saying ignore the negative, I am saying be more balanced in the amount of time and energy you give to it. My concern is that while you're focusing on the negative, you are also inadvertently training your brain to treat it as more important than I don't know... the GOOD THINGS that happen to you 🙄😮💨😤!
When you only give attention to the negative or downplay the good, you're also disconnecting yourself from feeling good about what you have accomplished, and that will ultimately impact how you see yourself and how you characterize what you do.
📸: .michellechung