04/20/2026
There’s been a lot of traumatic issues going on with my children and therefore, with me for quite a while now. I hurt for them because I love them so much. They are more important to me than life itself. Unfortunately, because of a lot of of the emotions they are going through, they have pulled away from me and mostly keep to themselves. It’s even recently caused a couple of my children to cruelly lash out at me! But even though I love them with all my heart, I cannot let them take away my happiness.
I can not let their hurtful comments destroy me. Even though I’d love to help them, they don’t want my help. So I have learned the only way for me to hold onto my peace & happiness is to give them their space so their pain does not take me down. I pray for them daily and my love for them never waivers but I really cannot base my happiness on how my children feel or treat me. I hope this doesn’t sound cold, but this is an important part of life.
‼️Self Preservation & Self-Love‼️
When we let anyone, even our own family, take away our joy, they’re also taking away one of the most important things we have in life.
 🕊️ Our own PEACE! 🕊️
So I continue to love them more than they will ever know. But it certainly doesn’t help them for me to be miserable, unhappy & suffer. So I still choose happiness. I hope one day they will begin to understand that I am their biggest advocate. I will always love them more than anyone else on this earth can. Until then
I MEDITATE 🧘♀️
I PRAY 🙏🏻 &
I BALANCE
my life and my soul so I can have peace in my life. I would love to hear any comments from anyone who understands these feelings. Please share if you have had any unpleasant issues with your own family and how you deal with it. You never know how much your comments may help someone else!
Namaste