04/15/2021
Proud to call Carla a friend and even prouder to help share her story. Black women can get breast cancer earlier than white women. Do not wait until the “official” suggested mammogram age of 40. Be proactive..ask your doctor when YOU should start screening. Far too Black women are told, “You are too young for breast cancer.” Sadly that is not the case.
There is a perception that breast cancer is an old white woman’s disease. It is true that is the average “face“ of breast cancer in the US, where the median age of breast cancer is 61.
Unfortunately, young white and Black women DO get breast cancer. Cancer found earlier is easiest to treat...give yourself that chance. Know your family history...most cancer is NOT inheirited, but when it is it often strikes at an earlier age.
More white women get breast cancer, more Black women die from it. Please know your risk and never stop advocating for yourself.
I am a West Tennessee native currently residing in Maryland. I proudly served in the United States Army with various assignments in the US and across Europe. I received an Honorable Discharge and continued on to serve my country as a contractor at the Pentagon in Washington DC.
I was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer (stage IV de novo) in May of 2014 at age 37, well before the recommended age to start receiving yearly mammograms. After completing the biopsies, CT scan, full body bone scan, and brain MRI, the results showed metastasis to the axillary lymph nodes, innumerable lesions scattered over my lungs and liver, and in multiple bones including my spine. My cancer was so extensive that I was administered the heavy chemotherapy, Taxol, for 38 weeks straight along with targeted therapy every three weeks! Yes, I was on weekly Taxol for 9 1/2 months! I still suffer from several side effects of Taxol including chemo induced peripheral neuropathy (CIPN).
This was my first and only diagnosis! I wondered how does someone go from being healthy one day and end up with terminal cancer the next! I attributed the aches, pains, and extreme fatigue to the wear and tear of being a Soldier in the Army, little did I know this silent killer was lurking throughout my body! It took a month or two for me to fully understand the severity of my diagnosis. As time went by I realized that I would receive some form of treatment for the remainder of my life, but the one thing I knew for sure was that God is in control! I am still here because of God’s tender grace and mercy along with the prayers of my family and close friends!
Cancer is still detected in my body and I'm still receiving intravenous treatment every three weeks. Also, I receive routine CT scans and bone scans along with routine MUGA scans. I receive the MUGA scans because the current treatment that I’m on has the potential to cause congestive heart failure. My cancer type is invasive ductal carcinoma (IDC) which is the most common type of breast cancer found in approximately 80 percent of breast cancer patients and my cancer subtype is hormone receptor negative (HR-), human epidermal growth factor receptor 2 positive (HER2+) which is found in only about 20-25 percent of all breast cancer patients and it is aggressive! Knowing your cancer type and subtype is very important.
We know the recommended age to start receiving yearly mammograms is age 40…I was only 37 at the time I was diagnosed. I encourage everyone (women and men) to perform breast self- exams and to also listen to your body which is how I discovered my cancer. Go get a second opinion...I'm glad I did because only five short months before my diagnosis, during a routine well-woman exam, I had a doctor tell me, "Oh you're only 37, you don't need a mammogram."
You are your own best advocate!
Lastly, I’ve had several people tell me that if I hadn’t shared my story with them they would not know I have terminal cancer because I don’t look sick (if they could only walk a mile in my shoes!) So, please be kind and love one another because you never know what the next person is going through. ~ Carla